Setup build wheels using cibuildwheel for all systems (#559)

* initial setup of cibuildwheel

* skip windows test

* revert obsolete change

* skip pypy on windows

* clean old wheel build configuration

* bump cibuildwheel version

* fix flake test

* limit wheel build run

* undo skiping/failing tests

* comment win32 steps in build-ocl-windows

* use stable ICD on macos

* Update scripts/build-ocl-windows.sh

Co-authored-by: Andreas Klöckner <inform@tiker.net>

* rename file for wheel build

* add conda-forge explanation

* remove mako from build-system requires

* disable mako check for build under cibuildwheel

* remove obsolete check of mako

* add license information 


add missed SCRIPT_DIR

* try use configure script

* musllinux build

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Andreas Klöckner <inform@tiker.net>

Co-authored-by: Andreas Klöckner <inform@tiker.net>