Use `TensorProductQuadrature` instead of `Quadrature` in `TensorProductElementGroupBase` (#436)

* create TensorProductQuadrature by default instead of Quadrature in TP element groups

* use all 1d bases and 1d nodes to create quadrature

* fix ruff complaints

* unpack in loop header

Co-authored-by: Alex Fikl <alexfikl@gmail.com>

* small change

* clean ups; check that nodes match

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Co-authored-by: Alex Fikl <alexfikl@gmail.com>